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Save Your Family from a Schiavo Tragedy

No matter where you stand regarding Terri Schiavo’s feeding tube issues, almost everyone agrees that what happened to Terri Schiavo and her family was a

tragedy.

Terri Schiavo’s severe brain damage made her unable to communicate her own health care decisions. When you cut through everything, at the core of the Schiavo battle were two questions:

  • Who should make decisions for Terri?

  • What decisions should be made?

The good news is that, by answering the who and what questions before you become incapacitated, you can avoid a Schiavo tragedy.

The Who Question

You can pick who will make decisions for you. You may choose a spouse, your children, a parent, a sibling, or a close friend. The best people to pick are those who will:

  • Be able to ask questions and get good answers from the doctors.

  • Make the decisions that you would make (even if they disagree with you).

  • Be able to stand up for you and deal with others who may disagree.

  • Be available when needed.

Once you’ve picked who you want, make it official! List them as your agents in your Power of Attorney for Health Care. Name three or more agents if possible, to act in sequence.

The What Question

The duty of a person who makes decisions for you is to follow your wishes, values and views. Don’t leave them guessing. Just saying “don’t ever put me on machines” doesn’t work - a respirator could make great sense depending on the outlook for your recovery.

A good starting place might be discussing your feelings about whether you’d want a feeding tube if you were in Terri Schiavo’s condition. Also, what do you care most about? Are there parts of your body that, were they no longer available, would tell you that your life would not be worth living? Do you want to be kept alive, no matter what? Think and communicate.

Summing Up

To avoid a Schiavo tragedy, take three steps:

  • Pick who will speak for you.

  • Make your selection official.

  • Think and communicate.

As time passes, don’t forget to keep your selection of agents and communication up-to-date.

If you would like to create or update your Power of Attorney for Health Care, an attorney who practices in the area of Elder Law can be of great assistance to you. When conducting your search, look for an attorney who is a member of National Association of Elder Law Attorneys.

It may seem as though these are decisions that could wait until later - but really, they are choices that need to be made now. Regardless of your age or health condition - take the time to think about it. Choosing now may save both you and your family additional heartache later.

 

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Social Security Disability Filing a claim for Social Security disability benefits could be one of the most important financial decisions you make in your life. However, people mistakenly view it as the "last great act of their working career."  Thus, they delay in filing a claim for years, or worse, they never file a disability claim. 

To delay in filing a claim, or to never file a claim could have disastrous financial consequences to you, your family, and eventually your Social Security retirement benefit.  When should you file a disability claim with Social Security? Simply put, when you reasonably expect that you will be unable to work for a minimum of 12 continuous months, or you expect that your medical condition will result in death.

Thus, you do not need to wait 12 months after you last worked to file a disability claim; however, Mr. Davis recommends that you wait at least 5 months after your last day of work to file a claim.  The value of your Social Security disability benefits prior to retirement age can be staggering.  For example, a claimant in their mid- forties with a monthly disability benefit amount of $1,000 could easily have disability benefits worth well in excess of $250,000 if they never return to work.  This amount does not include the automatic Medicare health insurance benefits one is entitled to twenty-nine (29) months following the date the Social Security Administration (SSA) finds that you became disabled.

You are eligible for Social Security disability benefits because you have worked and paid taxes most of your life! It is important to understand you are insured for disability insurance benefits by SSA if you have worked 5 of the last 10 years (the years do not need to be consecutive).  In essence, you have purchased a disability policy from the federal government. You paid the premiums for this disability insurance either by paying Social Security withholding (FICA) taxes or self-employment tax. 

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After several years, your failure to file a disability claim becomes a problem because SSA does not know you are disabled and it figures you simply decided to stop working.  Thus, the agency will average in "all your disability years with zeroes" with the years you did work to calculate your retirement benefit. 

Of course, the averaging in of so many years of zeroes to your lifetime earnings can and will have a dramatic negative impact on your monthly retirement benefit.  However, when you file a claim for Social Security disability and are found disabled, your earnings record and your retirement benefit is "protected" or "frozen" during the time you are disabled.  This is because SSA does not average in the zero years when calculating your retirement benefit.

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The monetary benefits and health insurance you will receive from SSA will reduce your stress and allow you and your family time to recover from your illness.  Your taxes paid for this disability insurance from SSA, please view it no different than life, health or automobile insurance.

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